Delightfully Dealing With Difficult Dilemmas (part 2) PDF Print E-mail
Written by Bob Lancer   

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Underneath it all, laws operate as the causes of the universe. Just as there is a law of gravity that causes object to fall to earth, there is a kind of gravity that causes circumstances to come to you. Envision what you desire, then let go of the vision and of the desire by accepting peace with trust. What you envisioned, or something very near to it, shows up.

 

But it is the law that brings it to you, not anything especially wonderful about you. As long as you operate UNDER the law, you demonstrate humility, the humility that works. True humility is not about thinking ill of yourself. It is about not thinking of yourself at all. It is about focusing on functioning in line with the laws of the universe.

 

The moment you feel arrogant about your accomplishment, you exchange the accomplishment for a feeling of arrogance. You express your ignorance of how the law actually works.

 

The laws at work in your life cannot be overruled by any government. You will live under the government that is aligned with the way you live your life. Align yourself with the experiences of fulfillment and fulfilling experience comes to you.

 

Emotional reactions masquerade as wisdom. Someone says something to you and you find yourself tempted to lose your temper over it. The feeling that drives you to lose your temper seems intelligent enough. Losing your temper in that moment seems like something you really want to do.

 

But that emotional reaction costs you your alignment with the laws of manifestation of your fulfillment. Your angry emotional reaction means you react AGAINST something. To react against something you have to hold it in mind. As long as you hold that condition in your mind you hold onto what you do not want in your life. You do that for the superficial pleasure of having something to fight against.

 

As long as you want to fight, you can find something to fight about. But you will never know peace until you give up the fight. To find peace, give up the condition of your mind that you fight against. Let go of the idea of what it is you want out of, you want away, you want freedom from. You can only find freedom from peace.

 

Shifting your mind from what you do not want, to what you want, begins the process of bringing to you what you want. But you have to pay very close attention to how you feel and think in the present moment to recognize when your thought needs shifting.

 

How you feel tunes you into how you think. When you feel frightened or frustrated, you can only think about what frightens or frustrates you. When you fall in love with someone, you cannot imagine anything wrong with that person. Your feeling tunes you into the thoughts you think. It tunes you into your perspective.

 

That is why when you feel depressed all you can think of is more reasons to feel depressed. When you feel blocked, all you can see are the walls. When you feel betrayed or taken advantage of, all you can see is why you should feel that way and why you should not feel any better.

 

Notice how you feel because your feeling drives your thinking. When you feel anything less than peaceful, successful, free, prosperous, loved and loving, totally secure, with all your problems solved, your thinking can only work against you. There are countless ways to shift out of negative or counterproductive thinking. You may have to find your own way, to find a new way. To find your way, just look within. Examine how you think and how you feel and you will find your way to freedom.

 

Here is one way. When you feel stuck in a dilemma, look at what you are thinking. This involves a subtle shift of your attention. Instead of looking at life FROM your thought, look AT your thought. See exactly what you regard as your dilemma. Then, simply ask yourself, "What would constitute the solution to this problem?" For example, if you have bills and you don't know how you are going to pay them, that is your dilemma. The solution would be that the bills get paid on time, easily.

 

If your dilemma is deepening debt, the solution is to be moving out debt, to be lessening your debt, to turn debt into savings. If your dilemma is a spouse who creates calamities, who speaks negatively, who acts like a victim, who blames you for everything, your solution is to be with someone who lives in harmony, or to be unaffected by those who choose to live differently.

 

Whatever you fear you will lose, the solution is to not lose it. If someone you care about rejects you, look closely at what your problem really is. You want that person back. Why? Because you think you need that person to live a fully complete and contented successful and meaningful life. So what is your solution. To live a fully contented, successful and meaningful life with or without that person.

 

The moment you open your heart to your solution, it's yours. Don't worry about how you are going to make that happen. Your part is done. You just have feel and know the condition you want. Then, let it go. You have to let go of what you don't want, and you have to let go of what you want, to receive what you want. Live in your visions and feelings of completely authentic success, fulfillment, abundance, freedom, love, intimacy, joy, gratitude, faith. When you feel fear or resistance to a condition you do not want, you are actually holding onto a vision that perpetuates that pain.

 

If you feel that you have to re-focus upon your dilemma to feel grounded, on track, in line with the direction you want your life to follow, then use your thought of your dilemma, over and over again, to catapult your thought back into the solution. Sometimes we need a problem to help us to define our solution.

 

Just don't dwell in the problem. Dwell in the solution and in your intention to have it manifested. Stay aware of your feelings. When you have the feeling of trying to force things, to push things, to MAKE your solution happen, let it go and live in peace. In peace your next constructive idea will dawn.

 

If it is hard for you believe in your solution, to believe that your solution can be, keep working at living in the feeling of total faith that it really can happen. With exercise, your "faith-muscle" grows stronger than your "fear-muscle". As you can accept the reality you desire within, you advance into the reality you desire to manifest.

 

Be patient with yourself in this work. Be gentle with yourself. Little by little your peace will grow. Your awareness will awaken and illuminate more and more of inner depths of your reality, where you learn what it is to be free - free of your dilemma.

 





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