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When a relationship end one of the parties are ready to move on. However, one party want to linger because comprehending it is over seem to be a problem.
The answer is when it is over it is over. Family nor friends can put it back together when it has came to an end. It is hard for the male to realize he has no more rights in the comfort of his ex. He seem to think that he cannot be at the end of a broken relationship. I do not understand if it is male chauvinism or not. However, I do know when the relationship is over it is over.
You try to make it work but it get worse and worse. Therefore, when the feelings are gone they are gone. What one mistake can be corrected by another, who understand your needs and how you want to be treated. Some individuals do not know how to give love or make a relatinship work. They think being abusive and batterting someone will work. Then, they are in denial that thy have hurt someone through abuse and domestic violence. You have some relationships that cheating is so bad, the party during the cheating feel they can do as they please. They have family members who support this behavior. When enough becomes enough, they want to hurt the other party rather than letting go.
You have some relationship not based on Love but materials. What can you do for me. Can I have ownership of something you purchase. Can I return after you have progress and moved on. I only want to comeback because I want what you have. I am angry because you rised above that relationship we had that ended. The truth is the same when it is ended it is over. You do not walk in and out of people life as you choose. If the departed spouse or other party has moved on or not it does not matter because they do not want you.
My question in this Dating and Relationship view is What does it take for someone to understand, you do not want them anymore? Why is it hard to comprehend, Love do not live here anymore. What make you or your associates think you can go and come as you please. Who do you think want to be abused and battered by physical, mental, social and emotional violence. Wake up and Spell the Coffee, The Relationship is over and what we thought we had has came to an end. Therefore, no matter what progress comes in any form, the relationshp is over.
When a relationship is over it is over. Moveon and let your life start over, it is
the end. Think aboutit and Speak it clear. There is no comeback or return because Love do not live here anymore. Tell your friends, associates and
family it is over the relationship has came to an end.
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